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Saturday, March 31, 2012

Am I doing my best?

Today I read a post by a fellow blogger who wrote about her experience with a trainer who, at the end of each day would ask her if she was doing her best. She talked about how, on a scale of one to ten, she really couldn't say that she was delivering a ten (being the maximum capacity or very best she could do) in any aspect of her life. Not as an employee, not in fitness, not in regards to how she treated the man in her life, and not how she treated herself. And I have to agree.

When I go for a walk and set a goal for 30 minutes, there are many times where I get bored or tired and think how 27 minutes is just as good. But it's not. Or when I get my mind set on counting calories and then it comes time to do so... And I just hate doing it so I promise to just be conscientious of what I eat.

This is true in other aspects of my life too. When I work in my office I know if I focused on the tasks at hand I could be even more productive than I am when I'm only half trying.

Or when a special someone comes to see me and I am tired so I allow myself a nap instead of cherishing the time that we have together.

It's true with school, too. I can get acceptable grades like a B without trying very hard in some subjects. But if I'm honest, this isn't my best. If I tried my best, I am capable of A's.

So how do I start really trying my best? Do I just go hardcore at everything at once? No, that'll lead to burnout. Instead, I think one of the most important parts of doing and being our best is deciding what matters most to us.

For instance, I am not happy with certain parts of my life. I don't like that I don't meditate and workout daily.
Or have a regular sleep schedule. Or do yoga. And I'm not too excites about the fact that I work so much for so little pay, so maybe I need to find a worthwhile job in order to begin doing my best as an employee.
In terms of my loved ones, I'm sure they understand that I am trying to be a better sister, daughter, granddaughter, girlfriend, and friend. And I value these people in my life, so now I need to figure out how to balance my personal health and my social/family life.

So much to think about! I am a firm believer that we should live in the moment and that each one of us is constantly growing and developing as a healthy and happy human being, so today I think my words of wisdom would be: patience and contemplation can pave the road to happiness.

How can you improve your happiness? And are you being the best you can be?

Monday, March 26, 2012

The 12-Day Hiatus

This is a post designed specifically for comments. I haven't posted in 12 days. This is the longest I've gone on this blog without posting - it's weird! I feel like I have so much going on in my life that I barely have time to gather my thoughts, take a breath, and sit down to a decent meal. Vegetables? Who has time for them? Sleep? A necessity as much as a luxury these days. Blogging? Not. Happening.

But there is also this other, slightly bigger problem. Writing has become less appealing with the increase in craziness in my life. I don't like feeling down and depressed about writing (and honestly, life in general). So I haven't made the time to post. I've lost some of my mojo, you could say.

So today I'm asking for idea on what to blog about. I kind of like keeping up with the jack-of-all-trades theme I've got going on - so feel free to post most anything! Subjects to avoid: politics and news. I hate to say it, but they just don't interest me on a daily basis. Think more artsy topics - ten ways to.... five things you should.... Why X is better than Y.... How people react to.... When the world ends how I'd spend my last days... (Oh wait, that's a good one.)

PLEASE - I'm asking for your help. Don't be shy. Feel free to leave a comment with 20 topic ideas. And nothing has to be fully fleshed out. If I like an idea, I'm game to research and re-word anything you suggest. Feel free to leave just one idea too - no pressure!

Until... well let's be honest I don't know when I'm writing and what I'm writing at the moment. So until "next" time.

xoAmanda

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Food for Thought

Here are some core truths that really spoke to me as I read through a list of 101. These are the ones I can fully equate myself with right now.

The acquisition of knowledge doesn’t mean you’re growing.  Growing happens when what you know changes how you live.

Right now, there’s a lot you don’t know.  And if you never challenge your own beliefs, the list will never shrink.

Whenever somebody discredits you, and tells you that you can’t do something, keep in mind that they are speaking from within the boundaries of their own limitations.

Every problem you have in your life right now is your responsibility, regardless of who initially caused it.

You cannot change what you refuse to confront.

There is good reason why you should wake each morning and mindfully consider what and who you
will give your day to:  Because unlike other things in life - love, money, respect, good health, hope, opportunities, and many more - time is the one thing you can never get back once it’s gone.

If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you.  You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.

When someone truly loves you, they don’t ever have to say a word.  You will be able to tell simply by the way they treat you over the long-term.

Family isn’t always blood.  They’re the people in your life who want you in theirs – the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.

Being nice to someone you dislike doesn’t mean you’re fake.  It means you’re mature enough to control your emotions.

If you aren’t happy being single, you won’t be happy in a relationship.  You have to create your own life first before you can share it with someone else.

 Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.

Taken from... http://www.marcandangel.com/

Monday, March 12, 2012

10 Questions to Ponder

1. How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?
     I think I would be older, if I didn't know my real age. While I don't claim to be wise about many things, I also sometimes feel more mature for my age than is expected.

2. Which is worse, failing or never trying?
     Failing. I'll never stop trying, but failing is harder for me because then I might regret it. It's pretty rare that I regret not trying something, because I usually have a good reason for not doing it in the first place (like doing something better!)

3. If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do?
     People get into ruts. They continue to do the same behaviors they have learned until something comes along to shock their system into change. Of course, there are also the things - like flossing and filing taxes - that we just have to do.

4. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
     That's a part of being human. I want to learn how to fly plane, build an engine for a car, cook like a chef, travel to every continent, learn to snowboard, and any number of things. Some of them will happen, some of them won't.

5. What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world?
     World hunger. Honestly. I think it is the most useless cruelty inflicted on the impoverished. There are countries with enough food but political disputes don't allow the resources to make it to those who need them the most. There are countries, the US included, that have more than enough food to go around, but still have starving citizens. Pointless.

6. If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich?
     Helping hungry people, or abused women and children. Paying my blessings forward. And sharing my story with anyone I can help, too.

7. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?
     One of the most frustrating parts of my day is working at jobs that feel less than my potential, and going to classes where I am the only one participating. Right now, with a few exceptions - writing this blog for example - I feel like I am settling for what I am doing.

8. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?
     I would stop doing the things I do that just don't contribute to my, or another's life. I would travel at every opportunity. I wouldn't say no to extraordinary opportunities or unlikely friendships. I would be living in the present that is currently flying by, and stop wasting time.

9. To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken?
     I feel like I have been in more control of my life since I turned 18, but there are also people in my life that have had, or currently have, a hand in my every decision. I'm independent with a sounding board that changes my mind sometimes.

10. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
     More concerned with doing the right things. I don't have a trajectory for my life, not in the long term. And sometimes, that brings me down - thinking about the right and wrong turns I've taken to get where I am. And figuring out WHAT the right things are to get wherever I'm going. In "doing things right" I almost always take the unconventional way. Rules are meant to be shaped. Boundaries are meant to be tested. And the road less taken usually has better wildflowers.

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P.S. I got these questions from http://www.marcandangel.com/

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Informational Interviews - Thursday, March 8th

One of the best ways to figure out whether you would like a job is to go on an informational interview. This is an interview that literally is all about you taking the time to ask a professional what he or she does on a daily basis, how they got to where they are and why they do it.

In almost any field, simply calling up someone in that field can provide a great networking opportunity and a chance to take a deeper look into that career path. Just remember, this is not a request for a job. Save your career-hunting questions for another time.
Some questions to ask:

How did you get started in this type of work?
What do you most like about your work?
What don't you like?
What skills are required for this kind of work?
What do you find most rewarding?
What do you do in a typical day?
Would you advise young people to enter this career area? Why or why not?
What, in your opinion, is the job outlook in this field? Is it growing?
What are some related positions a person interested in this area might explore?
Who else do you know whom I might talk with? May I use your name when I contact this person?

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Bamboo & Hemp - Friday, March 9th

I am becoming more and more immersed in the modern development of sustainable energy, eco-friendly consumerism and ecotourism. In short, going green. So I wanted to post a little blurb about two options available to consumers: Bamboo and Hemp.

Hemp

Clothing, hats, bags and other accessories made of hemp are an organic, eco-friendly option for consumers. Hemp is fast-growing, doesn't require many pesticides, and holds up in a drought, making it easier to produce. Designers such as Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren, and Giorgio Armani even have hemp collections.

Bamboo

This type of grass can grow up to 24 inches in a day, making it, like Hemp, an extremely renewable resource, and a better option than cotton. Plus, it feels softer than cotton! In addition to being used in clothing manufacturing, bamboo looks much like wood, and is just as sturdy. Bamboo has been the main building material in Asia for eons, and the use of bamboo has become more and more popular here in the states over just the last decade.

How do you eat an animal? - Saturday, March 10th

One bite at a time.

Today I'm writing about setting goals. And to set a goal, you have to make a pyramid with four layers. The Goal, Emotions, Reasoning, and How to.

The GOAL

At the top of the pyramid, write down your goal and make it detailed. For example: "I want to lose 50  pounds in five months." Not, "I want to lose weight." Or, "I want to get healthy."

EMOTIONS

Next, form an emotional connection to your goal so that you are willing to do the work - associate your goal with whatever the ultimate feeling you are looking to feel upon completing your goal. Perhaps it is of feeling loved, feeling happy, or feeling beautiful. What are the emotional benefits to attaining your goal?

REASONING

People can accomplish anything if they feel it is worth it and that they are capable: write down all the reasons your goal is possible and all the reasons it's worth it in this layer. Ex. I will lower my risk for heart disease, I will fit into a smaller size clothing, and I will be able to run longer distances.

HOW TO

At the bottom of the pyramid, you'll define a timeline and break your goal down into smaller goals by both time (5 months = lose 10 pounds each month = 2.5 pounds each week) and by definition: Ex. "I need to start working out 5 times a week for 30 minutes = how to make time to go to the gym; and I need to eat well = how to cook healthy, how to count calories."

And remember to use affirming rewards: for every day that I work out, I will add $2 to my itunes fund; for every week I meetlbs goal, I will get a manicure; for every month I lose 10 pounds, I will buy a new CD."

P.S. This pyramid was created by Jillian Michaels, and THIS (the above) is my goal. Thanks for reading!

Feedback

I'll keep this short and sweet: What do you think of the blog? How do you like the posts? Are there any topics you'd like to see written about? Thanks for reading along!!

Wednesday, March 07, 2012

Novel Preview! First Glimpse ;-)


I love that you guys read and comment on my work, so I wanted to give you a little something extra today. Remember when I said I am starting a novel? Here is an excerpt from what I've written thus far. Enjoy!

My name is Analeigh, and I am a misfit among misfits, only I do a pretty good job of blending in with the pretty people. I have been playing at the game of life for 24 years, 7 months, 2 weeks, and 4 days. This has been far too long. As I unwillingly approach my quarter-century life mark, I am tempted to call the game – forfeiting in the name of personal freedom and the abuse of legal should-be narcotics. But as I contemplate this decision, I felt the need to explain my ability to so easily give up this life. You see, if I wrote an autobiography, I might call it Assault and Battery or maybe The Short Sweet Life of an Autonomous Human Being or maybe just Trouble. Yes, I think that’s best. I’ll call it Trouble – the illumination of how I got in trouble, caused some riff raff, and officially disappeared into oblivion. So here is my story. Take from it what you will.

Four Great Time Wasters: Tuesday, March 7th

Hello readers (: Thanks for checking out my blog today. I'm finding it fun and a bit more of a challenge to post in groups, so this is the first of two posts I will do today, counting for Tuesday, March 6th. I know many of you are college students like myself, and you probably need an excuse to waste time while midterms are just around the corner, so I put together a list of some of my favorite websites to waste time on. I hope you find some new ones on here and remember to leave a comment if you like what you've read!

1. 1,000 Awesome Things
          According to the Website... "1000 Awesome Things is just a time-ticking countdown of 1000 awesome things. Launched June, 2008 and updated every weekday." Basically, it's really awesome! I loved to go on here and see the tips listed, and I pretty much always agree with the things they find awesome. It inspired me to write my own 1,000 Things That Make Me Happy.

2. My Life Is Average (MLIA)
          This site is pretty great. It is a sarcastic play on words, providing little snippets of users' lives that show just how UNaverage life can be. Some stories are cute, others are funny, and some are just downright outrageous!

3. StumbleUpon
          You know all those useless toolbars that many websites try to download onto your browser? This is one toolbar you NEED. It's amazing - allowing users to "stumble" through the world wide web based on their selected interests, bringing up hundreds of random websites to waste time on. This is where I found a lot of my own time wasters, honestly! Another great feature: pictures. I love photography, and stumbleupon allows me to just browse pictures from all over the world and internet for hours.

4. Pinterest
          I am pretty new to Pinterest, but so far I love it. Users are supposed to be invite only, but I got an invite from the site in less than a day after I requested one - so don't let the "exclusive" claim turn you away. Here is the basic concept: Pinterest is a Virtual Pinboard. Pinterest lets you organize and share all the beautiful things you find on the web. People use pinboards to plan their weddings, decorate their homes, and organize their favorite recipes. Once you sign up, remember to follow me (javagypsy7)!

So go on, waste time! And thanks for reading!

One Dumb Thing

Today I am trying out another new concept - a response blog. I am replying to a blog post by Danielle LaPorte. Here goes!

What's one dumb thing that you used to believe in?
Danielle says that she used to believe in this poetic, all-or-nothing approach to true love. I think I still believe in that, so I'm gonna have to go with believing in immortality. When I was growing up, I used to think that people had the same life as me. I grew up, blessedly, with both my grandmothers and no deaths in the family until I was in my teens. I kind of had this idea that you came into this world and left this world the same way, with the same people. So imagine my surprise when the elderly in my family started to pass! Where were they going? Seriously, I was SO not ready to leave yet! But of course, I learned pretty quickly that everyone has their time. And my grandparents dying before me was something to be thankful for, as other cultures are not so lucky.

On another note, thanks to everyone who responded on my Sunday reader feedback blog! It was great to hear that you like what you've been reading, and I got some cool new ideas about blog topics. As per the poll I posted, it seems you guys want to read about international news and nutrition in the upcoming week. Done and done ;

Until tomorrow!

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EDIT: Sorry! Apparently if I edit something Blogger reposts it... Oops!

Sunday, March 04, 2012

Days 1-14 365 Photo Challenge

Day 1 - 2/20/12Day 2, pt.1 - 2/21/12Day 2, pt.2 - 2/21/12Day 3 - 2/22/12 Day 4 - 2/23/12 Day 5 - 2/24/12
Day 6 - 2/25/12 Day 7 - 2/26/12 Day 8 - 2/27/12 Day 9 - 2/28/12 Day 10 - 2/29/12 Day 11 - 3/1/12
Day 12 - 3/2/12 Day 13 - 3/3/12Day 14 - 3/4/12

Days 1-17, a set on Flickr.
Photo Challenge Update! I had to switch to Flickr to post my pictures, since Blogger seems to dislike posting photos ;-) Enjoy!

Meditate today!

The inspiration for this post comes from my aunt, who asked for tips on how to meditate.

I learned how to meditate from an Indian man last Fall, and it seriously has improved my life so much. In order to benefit from mediation, you should work towards doing it three times a day, for at least 10-15 minutes. Now, I've read about meditation techniques that ask the meditator to focus on a task or problem they are having and see how meditating can help them solve it, but that is not how I usually meditate. I find that instead I benefit more from simply restoring a sense of calm to my mind...

Here is what I learned to do:

Turn off any distractions and sit in a quiet place. Breathe in deeply though your nose, counting to five. Hold your breathe for five counts, and then exhale through your mouth, again for five counts. It is important that you maintain control of your breath when you exhale - do not allow it to come wooshing out - control your diaphragm and exhale slowly.

Do this five times with your eyes open.

Repeat five times with your eyes closed.

This deep, rhythmic breathing allows you to begin to clear your mind and prepare it for silence.

Next, focus on one word in your mind. Ironically, my word has always been "breathe" because I often tell myself that, and because I can then focus on the action of breathing while I meditate.

For the next ten minutes, allow yourself to sit in peace, eyes closed, breathing normally, and focusing on your word. When your mind drifts, just bring it back to that word, and you will learn to train your mind not to wander. Also, I find that when I am having a particularly stressful time and it is difficult to concentrate, I literally write the word in my mind on a chalkboard, or watch as my word becomes different shapes and plays across my mind.

There is no wrong way to train your mind to focus on meditating, but I do recommend that you stick with the same word each time you meditate. Also, picking a positive word that represents your goals is helpful. Some ideas would be wellness, passion, faith, or serenity.

After your ten minutes are up, you will do the opposite breathing of the way you came into meditation. Do the five inhales-holds-exhales with your eyes closed.

Repeat with your eyes open.

And then enjoy the beginnings of inner peace.

Thanks for reading!

How to Become An Interior Decorator - Saturday, March 3rd

Here is a profession I always thought would be really cool to be able to do. There are courses and schools out there that would be able to fully educate you on the principles of design, colors, and more - but you can always start here!

What is an Interior Designer?

An Interior Designer is a person who focuses primarily on decorating interior spaces. This includes choosing a style, color palette, selecting appropriate furniture, floor and window coverings, artwork, and lighting. Designers are also involved in designing architectural detailing, such as crown molding and built-in bookshelves, or planning layouts of buildings undergoing renovation. Interior designers must be able to read blueprints, understand building and fire codes, and know how to make the space accessible to the disabled. Designers frequently collaborate with architects, electricians, and building contractors to ensure that their designs are safe and meet construction requirements.

1. Train your eye
    - subscribe to and read design magazines (check out the magazines available at libraries, if you can't subscribe on your own)
    - visit show homes
    - visit homes for sale in wealthy neighborhoods to see how professional decorators designed the spaces
    - visit art galleries to get a feel for color palates
    - visit offices of interior decorators

2. Educate yourself
    - research space planning (how to arrange furniture and other items within a particular space)
    - use of color and light depending on different area sizes and shapes
    - furniture and decorating styles (ex. modern, country, antique, etc.)
    - know your floor types, wall coverings, and window treatments
    - use of accessories (such as pillows, art, plants)
*There are plenty of books and websites that educate on the above, as well as going to hardware stores/home decorating stores (bed, bath & beyond!) as resources

3. Practice at home
    - rearranging the furniture
    - painting
    - changing rooms around on a budget

4. Volunteer your services
    - friends & family members
    - just for occasions:
        * marriage/co-habitation
        * new home
        * new baby
        * parties
        * hosting an event
        * starting a home business

5. Prepare a portfolio
    - photographs of spaces you have designed (15-20pictures at least, include before & afters) in a photo album or portfolio case
    - letters of recommendation from people you have designed for - either voluntarily or paid
    - carry past design boards (posterboards with pictures & samples of fabrics, flooring, wallpaper, etc. to show clients what you recommend)

6. Get a job
    - start within the industry: interior design and decorating firms - Internships are ideal
    - create a resume that promotes decorating, creativity, customer service, and organizational abilities

7. Establish relationships with suppliers
    - companies that supply your products & services you need
    - manufacturers of furniture, wall coverings, flooring, fabrics
    - contractors who do painting, carpentry, installation, etc.
    - shopping as a professional interior decorator, you are entitled to interior discounts of up to 50% off the regular retail price which you can then pass on to clients

8. Get clients
    - could include home builders, new home buyers, wealthy home owners, professional couples, advertising agencies, art galleries, bed and breakfasts, boutique stores, corporate head offices, hotels, law firms, restaurants, spas, and many other types of businesses
    - work with professionals who can refer business to you, such as real estate agents, architects, antiques dealers, art dealers, home renovators, and owners of businesses that sell home furnishings
    - other marketing techniques include putting up a web page with photos of interiors you have decorated and getting publicity in the homes section of your local newspaper

9. Grow as a professional
    - continue to learn new decorating techniques
    - once you start a business: attend trade shows, continue to read decorating magazines and books, and join professional associations
    - impress clients & have an advantage over the competition by becoming certified as a professional interior decorator

Interior designers draw upon many disciplines to enhance the function, safety, and aesthetics of interior spaces. Their main concerns are with how different colors, textures, furniture, lighting, and space work together to meet the needs of a building's occupants. Designers plan interior spaces of almost every type of building, including offices, airport terminals, theaters, shopping malls, restaurants, hotels, schools, hospitals, and private residences. Good design can boost office productivity, increase sales, attract a more affluent clientele, provide a more relaxing hospital stay, or increase a building's market value.

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How Geography Chose Me - Friday, March 2nd


It was in my seventh grade geography class that I had my first true introduction to the international community, the effect of politics, and the reality of human emotion. Most people remember that day with a different perspective, but 9/11 will always be the day I realized that there was a world bigger than me out there, and I wanted a piece of it. However, even with this abrupt change to my once-limited worldview, the field of geography didn’t seem like a choice for me because, like most students educated in the public school system in America, I didn’t see geography again until college. 

Since elementary school, I have been an above-average student. Excelling with a passion for learning, and never really accepting anything less than a B- as a legitimate grade, I made my way through high school and into Millersville University. I stumbled into my first geography course almost accidentily, taking it to fill a general education requirement, and remembering fondly how much I had enjoyed my seventh grade geography class. By the end of that semester, I had picked up geography as a minor, my passion for the subject rekindled. Still, it wasn’t until I was told “no, you cannot do that many majors and minors,” that I really started to focus on any sort of career choices in my future.

Over the next two years I went from being an English major, to an International Studies major, to a Government major, and finally to a major in Geography. In this final transition, Geography as a career path seemed to choose me, more so than I chose it. I faced a semester with incredible bouts of illness, and when I had to drop to part-time status, the two classes I kept were Geography courses, and a light bulb went off inside me – I had found my passion. With Geography as my major, and minors in Government, International Studies and History, plus countless interests in all different fields, I became the student I am today. And the writer I hope to become will always be influenced by this journey. 

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How You Can Improve Your Life in 10 Minutes a Day - Thursday, March 1st

Meditation has been practiced for thousands of years, all over the world. It was originally meant to help deepen understanding of the sacred and mystical forces of life, but today, meditation is commonly used for relaxation and stress reduction. Meditation is considered a type of mind-body complementary medicine. It can produce a deep state of relaxation and a tranquil mind. During meditation, you focus your attention and eliminate the stream of jumbled thoughts that may be crowding your mind and causing stress. This process results in enhanced emotional and physical well-being. 

The emotional benefits of meditation include gaining a new perspective on stressful situations, building skills to manage your stress, increasing self-awareness, living more consciously, focusing on the present, and reducing negative emotions. Studies show that meditation may also help such physical conditions as allergies, anxiety disorders, asthma, binge eating, cancer, depression, fatigue, heart disease, high blood pressure, pain, sleep problems, and substance abuse. The reason behind the effects of meditation is that it reduces stress levels and alleviates anxiety. If we can reduce stress, many health benefits follow. Spending even a few minutes daily in meditation can restore your calm and inner peace, and practicing it regularly allows you to experience tremendous benefits.

People in the contemporary world meditate for many different reasons. These people come from all walks of life. From rich to poor, entrepreneurs and blue collar workers, young and old, spiritual and non-spiritual, and everyone in between. You do not have to be of a certain religion, income level, or ethnicity to meditate, and that is the appeal of such a practice. Meditation helps to relieve tension and stress, helps you focus and sleep better, helps you to remain calm in stimulating situations, and helps you to remember to live in the moment, to think before acting and to be patient. Meditating is easy to do, and does not take a lot of time, so the benefits of meditating are well worth the effort. From this simple daily practice, experts and novices alike have claimed that meditation has helped them to gain inner peace, increase their self-awareness, learn to live in the moment, and even cure insomnia..

Consider your body to be like your bedroom. The more cluttered, unorganized and untidy your bedroom is, the less productive you can be in it. The same is true with your body – every day we add clutter – negative thoughts, emotions and energy from all different sources – people, media, our environment, and work. Meditating cleans out that clutter so you can clear your mind and be productive again. You clean your room and if you work at it daily, it stays clean. You meditate, and if you do it daily, you keep your mind clear, and gain inner peace. 

There are approximately 60,000 thoughts in your head on any given day. Meditation gives you clarity for those thoughts. It acts as a mental filing cabinet, so you can really focus on the thoughts you need to act on. The more you meditate, the more self-aware you become. This internal clarity makes it easier to understand your own thoughts, and desires; and the way you think, feel, and react. It allows you to make decisions without being so easily swayed by outside factors, and instead by listening to your own inner voice. Meditation increases your connection with you inner intuition, and helps you focus, be objective, remain grounded, and react thoughtfully. With this self-awareness, you learn to live in the present. Meditation also helps to make you more efficient, attentive and receptive, and you maximize every moment by doing so.

Meditation is known to help reduce and cure insomnia, as well. One of the primary causes of insomnia is racing thoughts. The bombardment of thoughts on your mind can result in anxiety, stress and depression, all of which make it more difficult to sleep well. Given that meditation clears our your mind and helps you to focus, it leads to a calmness that not only helps you ease into a deep sleep, but also helps you to sleep better. When you sleep, your body works to repair itself from the damage done while awake. This includes building muscles, repairing your skin, and clearing out mental clutter. When you clear out the mental clutter while you are still awake, you allow your mind to rest fully while you are sleeping. 

Naturally, there are some objections to meditating. According to numerous studies, the mental association of those who meditate is of people who have severed ties with mainstream society and are living solitary lives in pursuit of enlightenment. This stereotype insists that only the strictly religious and isolated individuals, including monks, priests, and hermits, can benefit from meditating. Some people also think that meditating is too difficult, takes too much time without an immediate, tangible output, and that it does not actually work. However, the opposite is true.  

Scientific studies show the positive effects of meditation on the brain. Last year, an article in Psychiatry Research Neuroimaging by researchers from Harvard Medical School, University of Massachusetts Medical School, and the Bender Institute of Neuroimaging in Germany, found that brain activity changed in a group of 16 participants who had not previously meditated. Among the enhancements: learning and memory processes, emotional regulation, and perspectives. Meanwhile, a study at American University published in 2009 in Cognitive Processing found that college students who meditated experienced enhanced brain activity.

The greatest facet of meditation is that anyone can do it–anywhere–for free. You do not have to go off on a ten-day mountain retreat, or take up yoga or tai chi. Meditation can be done at home, in the office, and just about anywhere in between. There is no special equipment needed to mediate, and no special training required for you to start doing it. Ray Dalio, the founder of the world’s biggest hedge fund, Bridgewater Associates, meditates. Steve Jobs meditated. Facebook, Ebay, and General Mills executives are meditators. Google sets up separate rooms at their headquarters so senior staff members can meditate. 

Among leaders and business owners, meditation is growing increasingly popular, because the practice encourages alertness in the present moment, a pause to relax and focus, and an opportunity to re-center one’s self to be a better leader. Often leaders get caught up in what happens next versus what is in front of them right now, and by living in the present moment – dealing with what you can control and letting go of what you cannot – you can make better decisions. 

Over the last ten years, wellness programs in the workplace have increased significantly with the overarching goal of alleviating stress and promoting work-life balance. Meditation helps improve concentration, and a clear mind makes you more productive, especially in creative disciplines like writing. Most people do not use the majority of their brains, and the power of the subconscious mind is one in which past intellectuals have tapped into, including Thomas Edison, Buddha, Confucius, and Einstein. The subconscious mind is much more insightful than anything the conscious mind can create, and meditation helps you to tap into your subconscious mind as a source of inspiration. It also provides management benefits: increased focus, control, and regulation of emotions, all of which help leaders pay attention to what really matters. 

During meditation, you become an observer to reality. By this, it is meant that you become more observant of how people act around you, how your environment runs, and how you think and feel. You become detached from your ego, and with that detachment, you become calmer and more level-headed. With this detachment, you will also find it easier to observe, process, assess and react to everything around you. You become more able to be objective when you react to stressful situations. It also helps you to approach problems in a non-judgmental and non-reactive way. The more in control you are, the more you can focus on what you are going to do. The best leaders are in complete control of their emotions even in the worst situations.

There is no one formula to meditation. It is as straight forward as taking a moment to pause, turn off your electronics, and give yourself a moment of quiet. The immediate physical impact: blood pressure decreases, and brain activity is less frenzied. Get comfortable. Get into a favorite chair or sit on a cushion. The physical environment should not be a distraction.

Focus on your breath. Observe the in-and-out flow of your breathing, and stay focused on that sensation. Breathe from your diaphragm, not your chest. Clear your mind. Put the to-do list aside, and practice every day. A meditation session can be as short as five or ten minutes, sitting on the edge of the bed when you first wake up. The practice of meditation is adaptable, make it work for you.

Meditation is a critical tool towards self-development and growth. It can be used as a way to renew your body and mind, and offers more benefits than any other discipline alone. In business, meditation offers increased focus, a source of inspiration, a sense of control, and stress relief. In your personal life, meditation helps you to live in the present moment, to stay in touch with your emotions, and to clear out mental clutter. Cultivating meditation as a daily habit can only improve your life, and can help you to maintain balance. If nothing else, it can provide ten minutes of inner peace each day, a luxury in today’s fast paced world.


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